'[I had] no debt at 30': Gen Xer empathizes with the millennial plight, going viral for admiring their resilience, while reminiscing on the 'good ol' days'

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    "Housing was so cheap. I'm talking $300 a month cheap"
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    r/Millennials. Posted by u/Buffalobillspharm 2 days ago GenXer's take on broke millennials and why they put up with this Discussion As a GenXer in my early 50's who works with highly educated and broke millennials, I just feel bad for them.
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    1. Debt slaves: These millennials were told to go to school and get a good job and their lives will be better. What happened: Millennials became debt slaves, with no hope of ever paying off their debt. On a mental level, they are so anxious because their backs are against a wall everyday. They have no choice, but to tread water in life everyday. What a terrible way to live.
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    2. Our youth was so much better. I never worried about money until I got married at 30 years old. In my 20s, I quit my jobs all of the time and travelled the world with a backpack and had a college degree and no debt at 30. I was free for my 20s. I can't imagine not having that time to be healthy, young and getting on a regular basis.
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    3. The music offered a counterpoint to capitalism. Alternative Rock said things weren't about money and getting ahead. It dealt with your feelings of isolation, sadness, frustration without offering some product to temporarily relieve your pain. It offered empathy instead of consumer products.
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    4. Housing was so cheap: Apartments were so cheap. I'm talking 300 dollars a month cheap. Easily affordable! Then we bought cheap houses and now we are millionaires or close. Millennials can not even afford a cheap apartment.
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    5. Our politicians aren't listening to millennials and offer no solutions. Why you all do not band together and elect some politicians from your generation who can help, I'llnever know. Instead, a lot of the media seems to try and distract you with
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    things to be outraged about like Bud Light and Litter Boxes in school bathrooms. Weird ..... that doesn't matter or affect your lives. Just my take, but how long can millennials take all this without losing their minds. Society stole their freedom, their money, their future and their hope.
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    Update: I didn't think this post would go viral. My purpose was to get out of my bubble after speaking to some millennials at work about their lives and realizing how difficult, different and stressful their lives have been. I only wanted to learn. A couple of things I wanted to clear up: I was not privileged. Traveling was a priority for me so I would save 10 grand, then quit and
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    travel the world for a few months, then repeat. This was possible because I had no debt because tuition at my state school was 3000 dollars a year and a room off campus in Buffalo NY in the early 90s was about 150 dollars a month. I lived with 5 other people in a house in college. When I
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    graduated I moved in with a friend at about 350 a month give or take. I don't blame millennials for not coming together politically. I know the major parties don't want them to. I was more or less trying to understand if they felt like they should engage in an open revolt.
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    selffive5 2 days ago. edited 2 days ago Honestly I don't think a lot of middle class millennials who actually represent the generation can afford to run for office. It would be so nice to see but it would be an undertaking
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    Lifeguard Top3834 2 days ago edited 2 days ago The only millennials I know of that hold state office are realtors from generational wealth. Go figure.
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    gaytee 2 days ago And they could take the unpaid internships required to get the networking to win those offices because their parents could afford to pay their bills.
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    Ihateturtles9 - 2 days ago Just a little secret -- a LOT of people over all generations that seem to magically have time/money to do things like be politicians, actors, wealth management, painters, musicians, go study anthropology in the jungle, and many many other 'cool interesting things' often come
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    from generational wealth which gives them the leeway to take the time to do all these things without worrying how they're gonna pay the rent next week. Shhhhhh it's a deep dark but true secret about our world. Go look up a lot of people who've done the above things and a lot of them didn't pick themselves up by their own bootstraps. Count the famous artists/musicians/actors/etc who came from wealthy families.....
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    Sufficient Elk76032 days ago This is how I feel about a lot of aspects of society and explains why we haven't "taken over." We can't afford to be entrepreneurs, politicians, community leaders etc. because we are just trying to keep afloat. So all power structures remain with the older generations. They really pulled up the ladder.
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    Drunky_McStumble 2 days ago edited 2 days ago I think there is, or was, this kind of prevailing passive attitude among Millenials that gaining power and representation in the system is just a matter of time; that it would come to us naturally once we "grew up" and the Boomers handed over the baton. Well, guess what? Most of us are well and truly into middle-age and those still aren't dying. 1, they aren't even retiring. We're gonna have to pry that baton from their cold, dead fingers.
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    humanesmoke 2 days ago They did it on purpose, they keep us in a perpetual stage of "young adulthood" even when they were running the show at the same age 89 Reply Share phonemonkey669 . 2 days ago ETATL;DR: The generation that invented youth culture has cultural Peter Pan syndrome!
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    huey2k2 2 days ago I'm just tired man. 300 Reply Share _XDEADBEEF. 2 days ago My ambitions in life are now to sleep for a very, very long time. Reply Share 96 KennieLaCroix 2 days ago For real, death might actually be better. And I don't believe in an afterlife lol
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    FionaTheFierce 2 days ago edited 2 days ago Gen X here and I absolutely agree. College costs started going through the roof just as I graduated. I worked as a waitress through college and made enough to pay my tuition, rent, and living expenses. Now the same job can't make enough to cover rent. Wages haven't kept up with inflation by a long shot. Each subsequent generation is poorer and poorer as more and more wealth is transferred to billionaires.
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    tughaichuan 2 days ago GenX too. I lived with my folks going to college, but I took out student loans to pay for my tuition. I worked a crappy job in a grocery store. Started at $5.43/hr. When I graduated (1989) I moved out of my parents' house. I still had the crappy job but after 4 years I was making $9.50/hr. I was able to afford an apartment, food, clothing, a new car. I'm glad I'm not a young person, growing up in these times.
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    NastySteeze 2 days ago My dad still thinks you can walk into literally anywhere with a paper resume, firm handshake, and a smile, to land any job you want outside of being a doctor or pilot.
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    matt314159 2 days ago I'm 40, with a B.A. and a Master's degree and I spent 18 years paying off my student loans. I was a college freshman on 9/11 and got laid off for the first time in 2009, and stayed unemployed until 2011 when I took a job at my alma-mater making $28,000 a year. It literally wasn't enough to live on, so I ran up credit card debt.
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